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Julie in water

Have you ever had it where you feel like you are living a lie? Where you think you are just trying to get by on whatever merits you think others want you to have… rather than on the experiences that you have from your own journey? Recently, I was in a gathering of friends where [...]

How old would you be?


It’s a question that I’ve been pondering a lot lately. How old would I be if I didn’t know how old I was? For a long time, I thought of myself as older than I was… pretty much through my 20′s. I don’t know if it was because I had a lot of friends that [...]

How much would you donate to meet someone??


I’m sure that you have played that game where people ask you “if you could have dinner with ONE person, who would it be?” Shortly thereafter – at least in times that I’ve been involved with that question – the answers start coming out.   Jesus. Martin Luther King Jr. Abraham Lincoln. The President. Betty [...]

My Digital Stalking Habit


The other day I found myself in the never ending rabbit hole that is called FaceBook stalking. It all started out innocently enough. I opened the social networking site and began looking at my newsfeed activity. Suddenly, where there are numerous comments in a status update, regardless of who posted the original activity, I find [...]