Why would anyone think that changing your mind about what you want is a bad thing?
People do, though. In part, it may stem from an older generation (or two) that believe we should “know” where we’re going, what we’re supposed to do. Some think we’re supposed to be focused early on, without diverging from those goals. Perhaps women especially think that because their choices were so limited in the olden days. Less options when you’re growing up make for less options in front of you, less choice for the kind of life you want to live and instead the choices pick what kind of life you’re going to live.
We don’t have that problem now. We have endless possibilities. Endless. If you want to raise a family, do it. If you want to have a career and raise a family, get on with it. If you want to live single or childless or have a child as a single mother by choice, now is your time.
Change your mind.
Follow your heart, while listening to your head.
Be fearless. Be you.
Photo taken by me of art (on a greeting card) from Papaya.