I love my girls more than anything in the world. More than TV, more than the intertubes, more than brownies. That totally says that I love them UH LOT.
My girls are 5 and almost 4 – 18 months apart and I wouldn’t have it any other way. I love that we planned had them so close together. They are their own best friends. They bring joy to our lives. We love seeing the world through their eyes. Nearly everything we do, we do it for them. (I hear the Bryan Adam song in my head, don’t you? sucka)
This past weekend, my mom asked to have the girls stay with her overnight at my aunt’s house after Thanksgiving dinner. We said yes right away thought about it and asked the girls if they’d like to stay. Their answers were an immediate, “YES!” much to my husband’s shagrin. (“But I took the day off for them!” shut it, sir…)
I try to find the good side in everything, even leaving the children for a whole 24 hours with their Gramma. Sure we’d miss them, but we’d have a few hours to ourselves. I made a list of the Top 5 Things You Appreciate About Having Kids When They Spend the Night Away:
1. Sleeping in2. see: #1
3. see: #2
4. see: #3
5. see #4
One morning without a kid climbing into your bed with pee-soaked pajamas.
One morning without a kid asking, “When are you gonna geeeeeet uuuuuuuupppp????”
One morning without having to get up to serve pancakes, then to have the kids come tell you they’re not going to eat the pancakes you slaved over microwaved because they “have a little brown on them.”
One morning to get lay in bed and turn on the TV to music videos on VH1 or CNN HLN instead of having to watch Special Agent Oso and debate stabbing your ears with hot, rusted wire hangars.
When you get the big things in life like kids, it’s the little things you appreciate.
- Snarkasm Generation Two
- Change for a dollar
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- MINE!
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ohhhh ahhhhhhh! can I borrow that aunt?
Twitter: alotofnothing
December 1, 2009 at 10:40 am
@kyooty, totally
Amen.
Twitter: alotofnothing
December 1, 2009 at 10:40 am
@Jennifer, praise jeebus
#6 You can go to the bathroom by yourself.
#7 You can walk around the house naked.
#8 Monkey sex
#9 Uninterrupted dinner
PS: so glad to hear Anissa is showing some improvement
Twitter: alotofnothing
December 1, 2009 at 10:41 am
@Little Miss Sunshine State, YES! except #7. no one wants to see that, not even me.
Twitter: lpgill
December 2, 2009 at 8:03 pm
@Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing], I love when my kids go to their Mom mom’s for the weekend- the last time they were there, we slept in until 11 a.m. *sigh* We did not, however, walk around naked. It feels wrong and I just can’t do it!
I especially like point number 3. And 4. And 1 and 2 and 5.
Sooo true.
Twitter: alotofnothing
December 1, 2009 at 10:41 am
@pixielation, word.
That’s all I want in life! To feel the joy of not just sleeping through the night, but sleeping in. Particularly because with those pee-soaked pajamas comes having to change pee-soaked bed sheets. And, I’m just not down with that. Who does he think I am? His maid? (He is 3…)
Twitter: alotofnothing
December 1, 2009 at 10:41 am
@Kami, darn kids and their “needs”
GAH.
Twitter: Issascrazyworld
December 1, 2009 at 11:35 am
Somehow I never manage to sleep in when my kids are elsewhere. I think I’m deficient.
Totally. I wish I had such an aunt. Man, my life sucks.
Twitter: momneedstherapy
December 10, 2009 at 11:13 pm
OMG, I hate Special Agent Fucking Oso. More than I hate pee-soaked pajamas. And that is saying a lot!
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