Hope for Anissa

by IzzyMom on November 17, 2009

Posted in Community

For the most current updates on Anissa’s progress, please check her first blog, Hope 4 Peyton. Her husband will be updating regularly.

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As you may have heard, Anissa, our beloved friend and leader here at Aiming Low, suffered a massive stroke on Tuesday afternoon. She is in the hospital right now, in the ICU.

More than anything, Anissa needs your prayers and positive thoughts but to the many people who have offered help to the Mayhew family, here is some info on what you can do:

Things that would be helpful right now are gift cards (AMEX and Visa are most flexible) or gift cards to restaurants and gift cards to the movies or to Blockbuster (to help keep the kids’ occupied).  If you would like to give a restaurant gift card, the following restaurants are local to them: Chick Fil A, Beef O’Brady’s, Hooter’s, Applebee’s, Moe’s, Ruby Tuesday, Red Lobster, Cracker Barrel, Panera Bread, Sonny’s, Burger King, Zaxby’s, McDonald’s, Subway.

A P.O. Box has been set up to receive any items you wish to send, the address can be found below. Please don’t send anything to the hospital or the Mayhew home. If you have questions, please email helpforanissa@gmail.com

We ask that you please respect the Mayhew family’s privacy by NOT calling the hospital and we thank you all SO MUCH for your outpouring of love and support for Anissa and her family. With thanks and love, The Aiming Low Team

If you would like to send something to Anissa and her family, we have set up a P.O. Box:

The Mayhew Family
860 Johnson Ferry Road 140-184
Atlanta, GA 30342

Please consider making a donation to the Mayhew Family to help with costs.

(Copy the code below, if you’d like to post this button on your own site)

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11/19/09 10:00 am UPDATE FROM ANISSA’S HUSBAND:

Well. I went home and stayed with the kids. Her sister and friend stayed with her. Apparently she had lots of eye movement this am. Encouraging. More scans this am.

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11/18/09 5:32 pm UPDATE FROM ANISSA’S HUSBAND:

Neurosurgeon just stopped in. We talked about the second bleed. I mentioned in the past 30 minutes her movement had picked up: – she was searching natalie’s hand for a ring we think – she was moving her left leg and arm more deliberately – she was having some facial expressions So, the doctor rubbed her sternum and said her name loud. She tried to open her eyes! Did it again, and the eyes opened wider. She keeps trying to reach the tubes and such. Very encouraging! KEEP PRAYING PLEASE!

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11/18/09 UPDATE 4:37 PM FROM ANISSA’S HUSBAND:

Not much change. Second bleed was not good. I brought the kids up. She responded slightly, then a lot of movement 20 minutes after they left. She’s fighting and has reached for me. Hard to say the reason, but she stops when contact is made. Feeding tube is in.

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11/18/09 1:37 pm Eastern UPDATE FROM ANISSA’S HUSBAND:

She’s had more bleeding in the left thalamus. She has bled into the spinal fluid. Also has more swelling and has become less responsive.

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11/18/09 12 pm Eastern UPDATE FROM ANISSA’S HUSBAND:

What we know is she had a massive stroke. She bled into the brainstem and pons areas of the brain. She is no longer sedated but still unconcious and unresponsive. Vitals are mostly stable except for a lowgrade fever most likely due to the damage to the pons. The pons control the bodies ability to regulate temperature. She is still on a vent and it is unclear if she is capable of breathing on her own. She has had an mri/mra/ct today. An eeg is pending. We’re in a waiting game now for survival first, and ultimately for her to wake up.

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Anne Y
Twitter:
November 17, 2009 at 10:39 pm

Sending love and prayers in the direction of the Mayhew family…my little Tatertot is snuggled up with his Disney blankie from Anissa and we will continue to pray!

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Dana @ Frugal in Virginia November 17, 2009 at 10:39 pm

You and your family are in our prayers, Anissa.

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JulieBouf November 17, 2009 at 10:40 pm

Anissa, you have such a sisterhood behind you. Take our strength and get better soon. I only just met you a few weeks ago in NYC. You have some an amazing presence both online and in person. I’m sending much love and prayers to you and your family.

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Undomestic Diva November 17, 2009 at 10:41 pm

Speechless and sick and sad and pissed. My love to Anissa & her family.

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Mrs. Flinger November 17, 2009 at 10:41 pm

Love you and thinking of you. You and your amazing rack will be back to perfect health and I will be there to snuggle them, I mean you. XOXO

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Robin Plemmons
Twitter:
November 17, 2009 at 10:42 pm

What a testament to your crazy wonderful life, Anissa. You are beloved. Praying for you & for comfort & healing & the best doctors in the whole freaking world.

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Maria November 17, 2009 at 10:42 pm

Love you Anissa! You’re in my thoughts and I’ll do all I can! Xoxo

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Miss Grace
Twitter:
November 17, 2009 at 10:43 pm

I love you Anissa. Hang in there and stay strong.

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QuatroMama November 17, 2009 at 10:43 pm

The prayers are pouring! Much Love!

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VDog
Twitter:
November 17, 2009 at 10:44 pm

Can’t wait to see you tits up again, love.

XOXOXOXOXO

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TexasRed
Twitter:
November 17, 2009 at 10:46 pm

Great way to organize help. Sending prayers from West Texas.

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Leah @Bookieboo November 17, 2009 at 10:46 pm

Sending prayers your way.

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4 Little Men and Girly Twins November 17, 2009 at 10:48 pm

My heart goes out to this family! They will be in our prayers!

Brittany

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Dawn November 17, 2009 at 10:48 pm

We have your back … and your front …

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rachel-asouthernfairytale November 17, 2009 at 10:49 pm

You know.

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Lex (@laprimera)
Twitter:
November 17, 2009 at 10:51 pm

Praying for Anissa and her family

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Secret Agent Mama/Mishelle November 17, 2009 at 10:51 pm

I’ll do all I can for our girl, Anissa!

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Lisa Rae @ smacksy November 17, 2009 at 10:52 pm

Anissa – holding your family, your doctors, and your circle of friends close in my thoughts and prayers.

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Christina Gleason @ Best Mom Award November 17, 2009 at 10:52 pm

Thinking of you. Your family has been through too much already. Let’s have some good news. We know you’re a fighter!

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Aunt Becky November 17, 2009 at 10:52 pm

Won’t stop praying.

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ExtraordinaryMommy November 17, 2009 at 10:53 pm

Hugging you from a distance – willing to give you my hair if it will make you better :)

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Lisa Marie Mary November 17, 2009 at 10:53 pm

Shocked and praying for her!!

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Jen L. November 17, 2009 at 10:54 pm

Sending lots of prayers. Love that lady!!

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Amy - Mom Spark & Mom Made That! November 17, 2009 at 10:54 pm

Thank you for providing this. I think most of us feel helpless and this helps with this. Praying for Anissa & family.

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Sara Broers November 17, 2009 at 10:55 pm

Thoughts and prayers to her family. Shocked and saddened to hear this. We never know what our lives have in store for us. Positive thoughts and prayers do make a world of difference!

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the mama bird diaries November 17, 2009 at 10:55 pm

Sending lots of prayers and love. XO

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Jackie November 17, 2009 at 11:00 pm

I am praying for Anissa. She and I go all the way back to grade school. She is an amazing woman and I pray she makes a full recovery.

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Liz @ Loving Mom November 17, 2009 at 11:02 pm

Praying for you in RI tonight Anissa.

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Marinka November 17, 2009 at 11:03 pm

love and prayers, always xox (I mean “always” as in “forever”, not as in “maxi pad”)

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moosh in indy.
Twitter:
November 17, 2009 at 11:05 pm

Get those boobs back to better my dear. We’ll take care of the rest.

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Babybloomr November 17, 2009 at 11:06 pm

Whoa, been out of the internet loop today– can’t believe this! Prayers and love coming your way…

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Jessica V.
Twitter:
November 17, 2009 at 11:08 pm

Thinking of Anissa and her family tonight – hope the recovery is swift and complete…and you Aiming Low ladies are really wonderful. What a great community.

XOXO From SoCal,

Jessica

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PBandJazz November 17, 2009 at 11:10 pm

Praying for you Anissa. I pray for a speedy recovery, peace, and full recovery. Your family is in my prayers too.

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Mommy Niri
Twitter:
November 17, 2009 at 11:11 pm

Come on Anissa, we need you back on your feet soon. Twitter is empty without you. Hugs. Niri

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Whymommy November 17, 2009 at 11:13 pm

Anissa, praying for you and your family.

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Mommy Instincts November 17, 2009 at 11:17 pm

Can u let us know what restarunts and gas stations are in close proximities to the hotels/hospital, so we can send appropriate gift cards? Thanks.

Jen

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Paul Carlucci November 18, 2009 at 1:35 am

@Mommy Instincts, Pete gravitates towards BP. No TXT back on restaurants yet.

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Cindy November 17, 2009 at 11:18 pm

You are in my thoughts and prayers. You make me laugh and smile everyday with your tweets. I am praying for your speedy recovery.

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ammre November 17, 2009 at 11:25 pm

Oh no! get better quick! you have a disney cruise to go on!

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Kimmad November 17, 2009 at 11:29 pm

I had not heard… all I can say is more prayers and positive thoughts coming my way.

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Tammy and Parker November 17, 2009 at 11:29 pm

You KNOW we love you. *smooch*

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Allyson/@HBMomof2 November 17, 2009 at 11:33 pm

We are praying for you and your beautiful family.

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Issa
Twitter:
November 17, 2009 at 11:34 pm

I am so glad you guys are doing this.

Anissa, we love you. Get better soon honey.

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Lolita November 17, 2009 at 11:41 pm

Positive, healing thoughts and love to Anissa and her family. Am here to help however I can… xoxo

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Liz@thisfullhouse November 17, 2009 at 11:47 pm

I attended your session at BlogHer ’09 and have been crushing on you, ever since. Get better, soon!!!

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Al_Pal
Twitter:
November 17, 2009 at 11:47 pm

Crikey! Sending healing thoughts to Anissa, along with thoughts of peace and wellness for her extended family.

Why so complex the obstacle course, God? Sheesh. We need that great mind and smokin’ figure back in the loop!

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AmazingGreis
Twitter:
November 17, 2009 at 11:49 pm

Keeping Anissa & her family in my every thought and prayer. We love you Anissa and hope for your fast recovery. XOXO

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trisha November 17, 2009 at 11:53 pm

How do i send paypal?

trisha

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Susan (5 Minutes for Mom) November 17, 2009 at 11:55 pm

Anissa, we love you and we are praying. Please let us know anyway we can help.

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Kim November 17, 2009 at 11:59 pm

Our prayers are with you and your family. Hope for a fast recovery!

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punkinmama
Twitter:
November 18, 2009 at 12:00 am

Wow, just now hearing about this – have been offline most of the day. Please continue to let us know what we can do to help. My thoughts & prayers are with Anissa and her family.

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