Comments on: Trying-To-Have-A-Baby Sex

By: The Sweetest

The Sweetest — Sat, 15 May 2010 02:13:36 +0000

There were times when it was down-right awful. When mu husband said he just didn’t think he could do it (I didn’t think that could actually happen, but yes, it can). We were trying way too hard. We took it down a notch. We charted ovulation. And we got pregnant, and I knew the exact day it happened.

By: mamaspohr

mamaspohr — Thu, 03 Sep 2009 23:52:13 +0000

You can do it once a month and get knocked up. TRUST ME.

Every other day and you might end up with sextuplets. HA GET IT! I crack myself up.

By: WhoHadDad

WhoHadDad — Thu, 03 Sep 2009 08:54:59 +0000

Yeah I’ve heard every other day is the best course of action too, but timing it right is good too! And yeah, from a guys point of view, don’t let it become a chore.

You just need to make the time and enjoy yourselves, and then sooner or later…

By: Cathy

Cathy — Thu, 03 Sep 2009 05:12:46 +0000

Yes, sex every other day is just about right. And trust me, skip the calendars and fancy charts – in my experience anyway, it’s only causing more stress than it’s worth.

Maybe you’ll be ready to try by the time I finally get knocked up :)

By: Brittany

Brittany — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 21:03:50 +0000

We tried (every thing) for 19 months to get pregnant. Just as I was about to go on clomid I told the dr. I wanted one last month and we did IT every single day. For a whole month. The first week was awesome, we were all, oh, the more you do it the more you want it. by the end we hated the sight of each other. HOWEVER, I did get pregnant. Doing it (should I say having sex? Or making sweet sticky love?) every other day did not work, tracking my cycle did not work. Just hard work and having the coitus even when it made us want to cut ourselves.

By: kyooty

kyooty — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 19:00:05 +0000

it can get complicated but have fun

By: Mountain Momma

Mountain Momma — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 18:55:45 +0000

You only need to have sex around the time you ovulate – about 10-14 days after your period starts. The weird thing is you can have sex on a Monday but get pregnant on a Friday while you are cleaning your bathtub because the little swimmers can live for a while inside you. Weird, huh? I didn’t know any of this either before I started trying to conceive. Wish I had learned this in school so I wouldn’t have spent all those years freaking out about getting knocked up.

By: Dea

Dea — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 18:12:12 +0000

Every other actually is BETTER – give his guys time to mature inside, where they’re supposed to mature. The guys live inside ya for up to 3 days….so you’ll never “miss” the ovulation. Good luck….from a person who has 2 oops babies, because we were like bunnies both times…when we “tried” we didn’t make it….though I honestly think there’s some weight to the fertile month theory – seeing as both times I got pregnant, it was June.